Wise Maturing


 

Life matures you and teaches you things.


At times, stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

If you find someone smarter than you, work with them. Don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

At times, the job pays you enough to kill your dreams. Don't stop dreaming. Keep the dream alive.

At times, free yourself of society's advice. Most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

Influence sometimes drifts a person through life. He has no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. It's best to learn their needs and lead them.

It's better to have one friend who's happy for you, supports your win, and encourages your dreams. A bunch of acquaintances who are lazy, self-centered, and jealous of your success are not the worth.

Forgiving people and stopping the blame makes you a lot happier.

Have a sense of taking charge of your life. No one will ever come save you. It's 100% your responsibility.

Your inner circle should be more focused on relational and practical aspects.

Self-help books can guide, but all you need is action and self-discipline.


Nobody is your enemy.

Anyone that annoys you teaches you patience and calmness.
Anyone that abandons you teaches you standing up on your own feet.
Anyone that offends you teaches you forgiveness and compassion.
Anything that you hate teaches you unconditional love.
Anything that you fear teaches you courage to overcome your fears.
Anything you can't control teaches you to let go.
Any "No" teaches you to be independent.
Any problem you're facing teaches you solution-finding.
Any attack you get teaches you the best form of defense.
Anyone who looks down on you teaches you to look up.

There's always a lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life.
Be polite, calm, gentle, and thankful always.
Fix your eyes on the Author and the Finisher of your faith.


When people betray, hurt, disappoint, disgrace, or offend you, it's okay. This means you did something worthy. You did something great and amazing.

Sometimes, these come from people you least expect. That is the beauty of life.
Unfortunately, some cry over them a lot and end up become victims of all circumstances.

Holding unto anger is like knocking your head on the wall and expecting the other person to feel pain. Only you feel the hurt.

The reality is: the world is full of annoying, naughty, stupid, and ungrateful people. You will always come across them at one point or another. But the best thing to do is to deal with them with wisdom and maturity.


You can never get everyone to love you, to think like you, or to behave like you.

We must learn to tolerate and overlook certain things. We must try to bury the faults of others and move on with life.

Anger, hatred, and intolerance have caused most of the world's problems, and they haven't solved anything.

Life is short. You don't know how much time you have left.

Take the pain. Forgive that special person you hold grudges against. Iron out your grievances.
Muster the courage. Apologize all you have offended.


By this time, you are self-reliant and independent.
You can realize and acknowledge your flaws.
You can be humble and grounded.
You can keep your word.
You can balance emotionally and rationally.
You can value experiences than material possessions.
You know how to listen.
You can be patient in trying situations.
You can easily adapt to change.
You value long-term fulfillment than short-term gratification.

Make life matter. Life is about how well you live your life and the positive impact you have made in the lives of others.

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