Are you a wheelbarrow?
You drain someone’s energy and waste someone’s time doing everything for you without considering their needs.
Are you a mosquito?
You have nothing positive to offer, and you always seek to take from others their benefits.
Are you a scaffolding person?
You want to dominate their life because you helped them once. You restrict their independence and keep them under your control.
Are you a crocodile?
You pretend with no genuine intentions. You get close to people to learn their secrets and may use that against them when conflicts arise. You lie, backstab, and gossip.
Are you a chameleon?
You are envious and jealous of people. You never support or celebrate their success. You make constant, unhealthy competition with them. You secretly monitor their progress with negative intentions and amplify their mistakes.
Are you a naysayer?
You are a dream killer. You will never accept or support their dreams. You focus on their failures and always see the negative side of things, creating more problems instead of solutions.
Are you a garbage pusher?
You bring negativity and bad news. You are filled with so much debris. You spread discouraging and demoralizing information. You share unfortunate and breaking news.
Are you any of these?
If so, you must come from a place of pain.
You must have felt hurt because you poured out everything, but they didn’t return the love you gave them as you hoped.
You must have felt hurt because the kindness you genuinely gave them was taken for granted.
Because you remain in your kindness, you don’t raise your voice, make an accusation, or cause a scene.
You carry your pain silently, while showing the same warmth and compassion you always have.
You start to distance yourself, not in anger but in quiet acceptance.
Even though you value them deeply and trust them without question, you have no other choice but to bear the pain of it.
You find yourself slowly creating space, walking away without any dramatic goodbyes and not looking back.
You must have felt hurt because out of your good intentions, you’re being manipulated.
You find people who never apologize, even when they know they’re wrong.
Who always make excuses or give empty promises
Who use your weaknesses against you
Who prioritize others but treat you like an option
Who try to control you
Who use guilt trips
Who twist your words to benefit themselves
Who shut down and get defensive instead of talking
Who project their feelings onto you
Who gaslight you to create self-doubt.
Who give you the silent treatment.
Who lie constantly.
Who leave you feeling crazy and confused.
Who always make you feel like you’re walking on eggshells
Who always play the victim
These have been too much for you. You want to unleash your wrath and inflict it on all the people who have hurt you so badly. You want to intensify it further because what you’re giving them doesn’t equate the gravity of the hurt they gave you. All in the name of justice.
But danger, too much consumption can cause you to become your own worst being.
It’s a hard, cruel reality we’re living. But deep down, you’re doing this all for love.
Turn away from your evil persona. Heal yourself.
Give respect and kindness to yourself. That’s what you deserve.
Let go of the things that rob you of your true freedom.
Protect your peace.
Never stop being kind or gentle even though you’ll never see them the same way again.
Cherish this breaking as you will be rebuilt, reimagined, and redefined to be whole and strong again.
One hard reality to accept is: Love sometimes means letting go and understanding that not everything is meant to be returned the way we hoped.
But even in the pain, we learn. We grow.
It’s okay not to be loved the way we want, as long as we love wholeheartedly.
Don’t destroy yourself. Be better from the pain.
You drain someone’s energy and waste someone’s time doing everything for you without considering their needs.
Are you a mosquito?
You have nothing positive to offer, and you always seek to take from others their benefits.
Are you a scaffolding person?
You want to dominate their life because you helped them once. You restrict their independence and keep them under your control.
Are you a crocodile?
You pretend with no genuine intentions. You get close to people to learn their secrets and may use that against them when conflicts arise. You lie, backstab, and gossip.
Are you a chameleon?
You are envious and jealous of people. You never support or celebrate their success. You make constant, unhealthy competition with them. You secretly monitor their progress with negative intentions and amplify their mistakes.
Are you a naysayer?
You are a dream killer. You will never accept or support their dreams. You focus on their failures and always see the negative side of things, creating more problems instead of solutions.
Are you a garbage pusher?
You bring negativity and bad news. You are filled with so much debris. You spread discouraging and demoralizing information. You share unfortunate and breaking news.
Are you any of these?
If so, you must come from a place of pain.
You must have felt hurt because you poured out everything, but they didn’t return the love you gave them as you hoped.
You must have felt hurt because the kindness you genuinely gave them was taken for granted.
Because you remain in your kindness, you don’t raise your voice, make an accusation, or cause a scene.
You carry your pain silently, while showing the same warmth and compassion you always have.
You start to distance yourself, not in anger but in quiet acceptance.
Even though you value them deeply and trust them without question, you have no other choice but to bear the pain of it.
You find yourself slowly creating space, walking away without any dramatic goodbyes and not looking back.
You must have felt hurt because out of your good intentions, you’re being manipulated.
You find people who never apologize, even when they know they’re wrong.
Who always make excuses or give empty promises
Who use your weaknesses against you
Who prioritize others but treat you like an option
Who try to control you
Who use guilt trips
Who twist your words to benefit themselves
Who shut down and get defensive instead of talking
Who project their feelings onto you
Who gaslight you to create self-doubt.
Who give you the silent treatment.
Who lie constantly.
Who leave you feeling crazy and confused.
Who always make you feel like you’re walking on eggshells
Who always play the victim
These have been too much for you. You want to unleash your wrath and inflict it on all the people who have hurt you so badly. You want to intensify it further because what you’re giving them doesn’t equate the gravity of the hurt they gave you. All in the name of justice.
But danger, too much consumption can cause you to become your own worst being.
It’s a hard, cruel reality we’re living. But deep down, you’re doing this all for love.
Turn away from your evil persona. Heal yourself.
Give respect and kindness to yourself. That’s what you deserve.
Let go of the things that rob you of your true freedom.
Protect your peace.
Never stop being kind or gentle even though you’ll never see them the same way again.
Cherish this breaking as you will be rebuilt, reimagined, and redefined to be whole and strong again.
One hard reality to accept is: Love sometimes means letting go and understanding that not everything is meant to be returned the way we hoped.
But even in the pain, we learn. We grow.
It’s okay not to be loved the way we want, as long as we love wholeheartedly.
Don’t destroy yourself. Be better from the pain.
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